by Tuan Rizan Adahan | Apr 17, 2020 | Bond of bliss
AVOIDING FEELINGS In completing this milestone of publishing the 50th Part of BOND OF BLISS, with all humility I say Alhamdulillah. Two years ago, Dr. Rizvan Jaldeen inspired and invited me to write articles for Perkumpulan Perkawinan Melayu which is the exclusive...
by Tuan Rizan Adahan | Apr 13, 2020 | Bond of bliss
HEALING NEGATIVE FEELINGS Understanding and accepting another person’s negative feelings is not easy if your own negative feelings have not been heard, supported and healed. The more that we are able to heal our own unsolved feelings from childhood the easier it is to...
by Tuan Rizan Adahan | Apr 3, 2020 | Bond of bliss
LETTER OF FEELINGS EXPRESSION It has been quite a while since I wrote the last part, in which I spoke about an alternative way of expressing your feelings, as this may reduce or have better control of what you wanted to convey. Sometimes, verbal communication could...
by Tuan Rizan Adahan | Apr 3, 2020 | Bond of bliss
COMMUNICATING DIFFICULT FEELINGS It so happens in our married lives that sometimes when we are upset, disappointed, frustrated, or angry it is difficult to make conversation lovingly. When negative emotions come up we tend to lose our loving feelings. At such times,...
by Tuan Rizan Adahan | Apr 3, 2020 | Bond of bliss
MEN AND MISTAKES Have you ever expected your husband to say sorry for a big mistake and he does not say so, and, you think it is his ego for not doing so? Remember that all of us carry this negative nonsense on our minds. Please do not label people and come to...
by Tuan Rizan Adahan | Apr 3, 2020 | Bond of bliss
WINNING THE LOVE OF A MAN Positive attitudes and loving feelings are what a man is looking for from a woman. If a woman is able to serve or assist the man with feelings of love and positive attitudes, the relationship would be very healthy. For example, if a man asks...
